12 April 2006

Are women Human

This is the title or an article in the Guardian today, and the of a new book by a Feminist scholar and lawyer, Catharine MacKinnon. (She graduated from Smith, which makes her an amazing woman for me already) bas having read some of what she says, I am even more impressed. She has been fighting for women's rights in the legal context, and is not afraid to state that the laws currently in place when it comes to rape,"the fact that the law of rape protects rapists and is written from their point of view to guarantee impunity for most rapes is officially regarded as a violation of the law of sex equality, national or international, by virtually nobody."
There are famous feminists who do not like here, call her a Fascist (even more reason to like her), that she is promotes "Victim Feminism", Naomi Wolf claims that Mackinnon, "urges women to identify with powerlessness, even at the expense of taking responsibility for the power they do possess."
But to listen to what this woman has to say is quite mind opening, and really honest.
She states that that until sex inequality is tackled legally women will continue to be raped, murdered and served up as masturbation fantasies for men. To follow her logic, she says that heterosexual sex in our societies is based on inequality, she states that: . "In the same way that, say, friendships between black people and white people in societies that are racist do." She goes on to criticise the governments in all the world. Saying that even though they all say that they want to end sexual discrimination in all its forms, hardly any have delivered on this. "You don't have countries saying that, 'Yes, we have sex discrimination here and we want it. We're entitled to it and we enjoy it.' You don't have them saying that; you have them doing it."
In her new book, Are Women Human? MacKinnon answers the question stating that no they are not. "If women were human, would we be a cash crop shipped from Thailand in containers into New York's brothels? Would we be sexual and reproductive slaves? Would we be bred, worked without pay our whole lives, burned when our dowry money wasn't enough or when men tired of us, starved as widows when our husbands died (if we survived his funeral pyre)? ..."
MacKinnon writes that violence against women "qualifies as a casus belli and a form of terrorism every bit as much as the events of September 11 do". Is she serious that violence against women should be treated as a war? "I think only because it's men doing it against women that it isn't seen as a war."

Skinny or Funny

JK Rowling, the Harry Potter author, has come out to say that she worries about her daughters growing up "empty-headed, self-obsessed, emaciated clones". She went on to say that she would rather they were, "independent, interesting, idealistic, kind, opinionated, original, funny, a thousand things, before 'thin'." As a non-skinny woman, I agree with her completely, my mom-bless her heart-has never been the kind who would nag me or constantly tell me that I need to lose/gain weight, or even that I need to finish my plate. This has caused me to be a semi-healthy eater-other then the fact that I have NES...lol-and also not to worry about how much I weight, or if I look good or not look good. My mother would not allow me to play with Barbie, and I had to go behind her back when I was younger to my friends and play with their Barbies-I even got a Barbie as a gift one year and my mom made my uncle return it and buy me Lego instead-I was allowed Legos to my hearts content, I was allowed puzzles anything that would feed my brain-bas not allowed a Cabbage Patch Kids, those first kitchen set-ups...you get the point...bas I think that this was good.
I will not allow my daughter to have a Barbie-she can have a Fulla...lol!

10 April 2006

Levels of Boredom

I always get this way just before I have to pack and leave. I start to get really fidgety, and my level of patience and boredom reach the lowest level. I have no idea why, I guess it is about the excitement of going somewhere new-well in my case not new bas different-and just wanting the date of travel to arrive as soon as possible. I am going to Saudi on Sunday, to renew my residency there, and to see my extended family, from cousins, aunts and uncles. I also get most of my shopping done there, it’s cheap and they have EVERYTHING!
Bas this trip is a bit different, my family has a hospital in Al-Khubar, and they want me to stay for a bit and help out. Now I didn't study medicine, or management, bas it seems that it is time for me to pitch in with the family business. I have no idea if I will do it, and to be honest for me to survive in Saudi-which I love don't get me wrong-is not something that I can see myself doing. Bas I guess at some point one has to put their preference on the side, and just do what the family needs, I have quite a few friends here who work with the family, and some are not very happy, bas I think that it must be a great feeling to actually know that what you doing is not something that is just helping yourself, bas your whole family...bas I am digressing...last night I saw how my level of boredom has reached supreme levels, I just was unable to deal with some of the people who were around me-and I know my friends read this blog, and please don't get upset-I am just tired of the same conversations, the same topics, the same issues, I want new stuff to happen, and not just to me, bas to my friends and I. On Saturday we went to a friend's farm, and we played tricks all night, and that was just fun...well I had fun.
I think it is just we all need a holiday, or at least I need a holiday...I have never been very good at being in one place for very long, restlessness hits, and I get annoying and annoyed...lol...point of this post...none what so ever...pure gibberish...and the PhD calls now!

09 April 2006

MSN Conversation!

umana says: inti unbelievable
Lulwa's Logic says:
why?
umana says: heik
umana says: cause you always have interesting shit to bash men
Lulwa's Logic says:
they are an easy target!
Lulwa's Logic says:
lol

Could not stop laughing

10 strange things men do...lol

1 Cycling with no hands. Why? With folded arms is particularly obnoxious.

2 Throwing things in the air and catching them in their mouths. Sweets, nuts, cigarettes. Presumably it is supposed to demonstrate coordination. If it worked, women would regularly fall in love with seals.

3 Undoing bra straps with one hand. They think it shows confidence and experience. It's just sleazy.

4 Wearing massive boxer shorts. Why do men do this? Best guess is that they flatter themselves that their giant organs need the spare capacity.

5 Whistling. Presumably once a mating call, redundant since we evolved for speech. It is never musical, except at the end of '(Sittin' on) the Dock of the Bay' by Otis Redding.

6 Carrying a big bunch of keys. Suggests ownership of big cave.

7 Driving around in white vans with one wireless phone headset in each ear. Suggests potential to be rugged fighter pilot.

8 Making a fuss. 'Waiter, this wine is corked!' Dates back to Neolithic times when weak cavemen could achieve alpha status by annoying other males into submission.

9 Wearing hair gel. Robbie shouldn't, nor should you.

10 Goatee beards. Anthropologists say it indicates civilised manliness: 'I produce lots of hair, but I deftly sculpt it with my razor.'

The Observer, 10 strange things that men do...

Life

My new motto in life is quite simple:

Ignore, Eject and Flush!

Simple and BRILLIANT-if I say so myself.

Liberal Fascist

Having just come out of the closet as a Fascist, and a liberal one at that (some friends have named me the Blatant fascist), I look around me at my friends and have come to the conclusion that we are ALL fascists, bas each in their own way. I have a friend who tells me that she is not a fascists, bas-and I am quoting: "I defend my arguments in a fascist way cause all of you are fascists!"-LOL-a true fascist in denial!!! I have another friend, who is just so soft spoken and accommodating, that in the end you do what she wants-a sweet fascist!!! I can go on and on...bas really I have seen that since I made my fascism public people have been able to deal with me easier, they know where I stand and what I believe in and well they either go along with me...aw we have a DRAMA!!! HA!
This word has, because of the likes of Franco, Hitler, and Mussolini, been given a bad interpretation, and people look away in disgust when someone says they are a fascist, has to be changed. For a language to keep developing we need to redefine words, like Feminists, Terrorist, Freedom Fighter, and so on...fa lets do that with Fascists. Seriously, a fascist is just someone who wants the world to run according to them, and will try to boss, convince, shout, sweet talk, people into doing what they want.
So I think that people should look into their hearts, and just decide what kind of fascist they are, and then be proud of it.
YALLA!!!!

06 April 2006

Interesting article.


I check out the Guardian everyday-favorite newspaper back in the UK-and today I found an interesting article. I am not going to comment on it-yet! Because people will say that I am just bitching out men.
Bas do read it, tell me what you think, if anything it is quite interesting, for both men and women.
The Books that move men

Enjoy.