They are tough, they are complicated and lately they are not going to well.
I have friends who are faraway and I am losing touch with them and this makes me truly sad.
I have friends around me who I am fighting with, and thus we don't or can't talk anymore and that makes me truly sad.
Yet...
I have friends that I am meeting and friendships are developing and that makes me happy.
I have met people who only after a few meetings I feel like I have known them all my life, and I feel truly satisfied by that.
I am re-meeting old friends, who I had lost touch with or who I felt no longer clicked with me, bas who in the end turned out to be the ones who understood me best.
Bas in general, friendships, are tough and complicated when really they shouldn't be.
You remind me of a friend back home who is such a drama queen. Will you stop being dramatic and gon on with your life. Think of your future and ignore the silly things. Get an icock ;-)
ReplyDeleteI agree that it's helpful to think of the future, Luke, though with full respect think you'd be an awful shrink or advisor. The trick is this: to allow someone to justify their feelings. If someone is sad, allow them to celebrate their saddness, cause from your point of view you can't obviously feel what he or she is going through, and in this case, much less relate. I think it's fair to allow our systems to hurt, heal and move on as better & more importantly stronger people. Common banter like dramaqueen and drama, well, ya so what, maybe she is maybe she is not, do you think you're being of any help by writing down your comment? I doubt it's your intention to be destructive, but I've had a lot of experience with this and maybe because I too listen to what my soul's saying deep down inside. Ya maybe I'm a bit too much in touch with it, but believe me it works and it's a good solution.
ReplyDeleteLittle Lulu, for starters, I think you need to get out, take a long walk and think of all the positives and also all the negatives in your life. Stop and admire your. And stop and see what you can fix in you. And start from there...
You know I am getting fed up with men always telling me I am being a drama queen just because I worry about stuff and get upset...it isn't DRAMA...its feeling and trying to resolve stuff...fucking hell!
ReplyDeleteI am not in any way trying to be destructive. I am just sick as well listening to people's complaints about their lives. I agree with you Sebastian. I just think Lulu needs to go out for a walk, yes, or perhaps go out for a drink. Just live your life. You choose how you'd like to feel. Live life to the fullest.
ReplyDeleteLulwa, the really sad thing is when you meet friends who you lost touch with after several years, and find out that they have changed, and you no longer know them as you thought you do…
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