I think there is a point when honesty just becoming meanness.
There is not reason to break someone's spirit, to bring them down to such a level where they start feeling bad about themselves. I think the role of friends, or loved ones in general is to help the person realise something...and then support them while they change, or at the very least attempt a change. I for one don't like people to be extremely harsh with me, I can take criticism and I can take honesty, bas when it makes me feel bad...I just don't want to hear it.
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